Galentine’s Day: a holiday observed on February 13th as a time to celebrate friendships, especially among women (Merriam Webster) 

As February draws nearer, every social media feed seems to get filled with Valentine’s Day content, and it seems like every single person in the world has a significant other. Instagram stories with chocolates, teddy bears and flowers are infinite, and even at 16 it leaves me overwhelmed. But I have found a sanctuary: Galentine’s Day. 

For me, this tradition began in freshman year when I got to host my first ever Galentine’s Day. 

Despite the spread of COVID-19 affecting us, we showed up masked, coughing and dressed in pink and red to celebrate our friendship. We gathered around my dining room table and painted on tiny easels while sharing laughs. In sophomore year, we sat around the same table making slime. This year, we get to celebrate our third annual Galentine’s by playing Valentine’s Day-themed games and watching movies. 

While the air of romance floating around as you scroll is strong, remember that it’s been tailored for social media; misleading expectations steer friends away from using this time to celebrate their love for one another. Whether it means hosting your own Galentine’s party or sending candy grams, remember to take the time to cherish your friends this February, because they are the people who will be by your side longer than any romantic partners.